Sunday, October 9, 2011

The Benefits of Having a Sex Friend


I wonder if they're gonna order a pizza


You’ve had a  great day at work, a wild weekend, a lazy Sunday and what exactly do you need to put the cherry on top? A little P in V action. Now, if you are newly single, currently single, or just not the relationship type what are you gonna do?

This is where the sex friend comes in.  We all know that person. You find them attractive, you have a little bit of chemistry but you could never, ever see yourself having a serious relationship with them. These types of people make the perfect sex friend.

Sex friends can offer lots of support. By knowing there is someone out there DTF no matter what outfit you wore out, how high your heels were, how gelled and spikey you got your hair to be, it takes a lot of pressure off of the situation.  By taking the pressure off the situation you are able to let your inhibitions go. You are able to try new things, be wilder, scream louder, and get crazy. When you are able to try these new things and perfect your “skills” so that when you do find someone that you want to be in a committed relationship with that you know exactly what your good at, exactly what new things to show your partner, and exactly what you need to be pleased.

Here’s the thing though. Don’t take your sex friend for granted. Don’t be calling them up if you haven’t showered in 3 days. Don’t try and overstay your welcome. Don’t be texting them 24 hours a day. All this is extremely annoying. And no one likes annoying.

Having a sex friend can come with consequences. With casual sex there is always the chance of developing feelings. Unless this is a mutual occurrence there is possibilities for heartbreak. This is something you always need to think about with your sex friend.  We’ve all seen the movies, the FWB things “never works” but if you do it right it can. Just cut it off before it gets too far.

If you’re considering having a sex friend, choose carefully and guard yourself. And always use protection J

Forever GOLDamn,
S&M
(and yes, the virgin statuses still remain)