Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Fantasizing about me?

We all have them. And they're hot. You know what I'm talking. Same Sex Fantasies.

Just because you fantasize about someone of the same sex doesn't mean your gay or lesbian (I mean it could.... but thats not a fo sho case) Having a naughty dream about some hot celebrity (or even about your BFF like S&M do) is a perfectly normal thing. And we think you should do it all the time!

I enjoy a good lesbian fantasy every now and then. I even enjoy a good lesbian night every now and then. But that doesn't mean I'm a lesbian for all time! I just love making out and the human body, whether that be  a man's or a woman's. And you should feel the same. Be open with having those hot erotic dreams and fantasies, no matter who they're about!

There is nothing wrong with experimentation. Whether it be in your dreams or in real life. Just be secure in who you are and know for sure whether you like the stick or the hole (penis or vagina if your slow....)

Guys have a problem with this because they're so afraid that if they think about another man and his unmentionables (geez im just gonna come out and say it. PENIS) that they're automatically gay. But hey you have one too so why not play with someone elses in your dreams. As long as its not all you think about we really don't see anything wrong with it. Go ahead and have your little day dreams. Just think about me 99% of the time and him 1%. (And you better not call me Steve in bed)

My mom put it best one time saying,"M, you are not a slut. Your just a drunk Lesbian. And nothing is wrong with that."

The bottom line is to not freak out if you have a little lesbian fantasy or even a little gay one. As long as you know what you want in the long run there is nothing wrong with letting your mind wander.

Forever GolDAMN
S&M

Monday, February 14, 2011

Half the fun is talking about it

S&M are very open about everything. Especially when it comes to sex. But we're virgins, so don't get the wrong idea.


Whether your with someone or out and about on your own, talking about sex and everything that goes along with it should be something you enjoy. Talk about it with your girlfriends, with your guy friends, with your roommates. It doesn't matter who! Just be open about it. Crack open a bottle of wine (or a fifth for all I care) and share some stories with your friends. It'll be fun I promise. There is no reason to be shy about it! Everyone loves to do it, so what's wrong with talking about something we all love?

Yes yes some people consider sex to be a very private thing, and thats perfectly fine, but you should always have at least one person in your life you can be completely open with. Not only does it make your relationship with that person more intimate, but it's also fun! Talking about sex and the experiences you've had is a natural thing. We all do it (well we don't.... but you do you big sluts) so we should be open about it.
Sharing your thoughts, feelings and experiences is fun. S&M love sharing stories, whether they be funny, kinky, sexy or embarrassing it's a way to express yourself. Don't worry you don't have to tell the raunchy details cause we don't want to hear about that (S does, seriously, she does).

If you're feeling real adventurous you can go out and visit a sex store with your friends. This recently occurred with some of S&M's friends A&J (hot bitches FYI) and it was quite and experience. Not only can you see extremely scary things (did you know they have penises there the size of a bodybuilders thigh?) but you can laugh about the crazy things that some people do together. Maybe even pick up a few items along the way? Surprising your other half can be super fun!

SO BITCHES. Get out there and start talking about it. Maybe you'll learn some new things or some new tricks. (Let's hope, cause you're all boring the shit out of me)

LOVE
S&M